in response to krswht... I FIGURE SINCE I'M HERE ALREADY I MIGHT AS WELL ASK & HOPEFULLY MAKE A DIF IN SOME POOR GIRLS LIFE. I stumbled into this website by just clicking advice for abused women. It seems like every so often I run into a woman who's either in an abusive relationship or has been. The ones that are don't know they in an abusive relationship because they are "in love" or are "stuck here till I can get my shyt together; don't have any other choice right now". EITHER WAY, I don't know what to tell them when I talk to them. I don't even know how to differentiate between being abused and having low self esteem and feeling they don't deserve better. IS THERE SOMEWHERE, A PARAGRAPH, A POEM, A LIST OR SOMETHING THAT I CAN POST THAT WILL HOPEFULLY OPEN THEIR EYES. SOMETHING THAT WILL MAKE THEM SAY "HEY, THAT'S ME, I'M BEING ABUSED & DIDN'T EVEN KNOW IT." OR "WOW, I GUESS I DON'T DESERVE IT AND I JUST DIDN'T KNOW I WAS JUST BRAINWASHED." WHATEVER IS AVAILABLE I WOULD LIKE TO HAVE IT FOR THE FUTURE. I PROBABLY WON'T COME BACK HERE EVER AGAIN BUT I FIGURE SINCE I'M HERE ALREADY I MIGHT AS WELL ASK & HOPEFULLY MAKE A DIF IN SOME POOR GIRLS LIFE. (ROBERTO EL TIBURON , THAT'S MY FACEBOOK PAGE).